What Are The Odds…? Sharing Our Stories And Offering Kindness In Return.

I received this note along with a purchase I made on eBay and it absolutely warmed my heart. I’d say “what are the odds?!” but then I really do believe the Universe finds away to align things for the good…

I wrote this lovely woman a note in return to let her know her words fell into loving hands, and to offer words of support…which she so readily deserves. She is hoping to help her son “chase his dreams” to which I said how blessed he is to have her, and that as a team they will succeed.  

I then shared this Audrey Hepburn quotation:

The world is made a much smaller and warmer place when kind hearts lead the way. 


Cat Humor – My Daughter, The Vampire

My baby girl looked a vampire with those beautiful fangs (ones which, I daresay, she bared to all but her thankful mum.) ❤

I had the  painful task of helping her transition – with her permission, which I had – just under four months ago.  I still cry when I think of her, and I feel a void where once her little voice sounded, but I will ever be thankful that she and I were united nearly 13 years ago – she was the closest life I had for a while.

She was, without question, my little girl, through and through…and how blessed I was she chose for me to fulfill that role for her, because wild animals DO choose. ❤

When we open our hearts to the Universe, it gives us the gift of being able to be present with others – human or otherwise – to offer our love, and to be there when friendship, compassion, trust, and mercy are needed most.  

While in some ways I felt I didn’t have the right, it was a responsibility I would fulfill to the very best of my ability…for her. For my angel. 




Much that I love language I find that I’m often stumped when feeling profoundly, as words lack enough “oomph!” to accurately capture what I’m feeling. To quantify the gratitude I have for both my parents is – also – nigh impossible, because neither is there an appropriate measure.  

I wouldn’t be where I am if not for both of them – no matter the crazy, quirky, dark or dreary, offbeat, or downright terrible things I’ve done along the way, they supported me wholly (sometimes they even join in – as evidenced below. 🙂 )  

They embrace and love me no matter what, and have demonstrated the ultimate selflessness time and time…and time…again in doing whatever they could to help me achieve my dreams…

They’ve taught me so many valuable lessons, allowed me the space to learn my own (equally as vital!), and instilled a sense of strength that has helped me through some horribly challenging times.

Not a day goes by that I don’t appreciate what they have done, still do for me, and how much they accept and value who I am. I feel blessed and thankful that both myself and my husband can have such a close and happy relationship with them, and that we get a chance to see one another despite all moving on in life.  

Blessed and beyond. ❤


Martial Arts Humor – My Mom

Leaving to head back home after visiting my parents for the weekend…

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Mom: It’s going to start snowing, you better get going!  I don’t want you to have any trouble.

Me: Okay! I’ll let you know when I get there.

Mom:  Do you have your sword, Bunny?

Me: I do! 

Mom: Okay, good!  Drive safely! 


Can’t forget the important things!

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Love to All The Moms!

I am NOT

By ANY stretch…


A Hallmark holiday fan.

I do NOT believe in designating days to necessarily praise or pamper just because someone says we should.  I don’t BLAME people for observing the holidays…I get my mum mother’s day cards TOO!  And I don’t really blame companies for aiming to generate business – we all do that in our own way to make a living!  So it isn’t “wrong” so much as it sort of bothers me that so much pressure surrounds holidays now.

DO NOT get me started on Valentine’s Day!  I don’t want flowers or chocolates (even if they’re sugar free!), or any special notes… I think we should do those things for each other JUST BECAUSE.

That’s right…


Leaving little notes to say “I love you,”thank you,” or “I appreciate you,”…  Picking up the phone to say something kind, or giving your mum a kiss at the end of a long day – ANY old dayJUST BECAUSE…is what matters. (At least to me!)

I will randomly tell my parents how amazing they are, how blessed I feel to be theirs…or I will say it to a friend of theirs (or mine) while they are present, even.  I don’t say it because I feel obligated – It just comes out!  I can only hope that they will never doubt how proud I am of them, how thankful I am to be their child, or how grateful I am for all that they have done for me and my siblings – it is never, ever unnoticed!

Gibson Pinup

Vintage Gibson Pinup ad that we shared on Facebook for The American Hot Rod Foundation, in honor of Mum’s Day. Not our image, but just a fun share (it was a random internet find)! 🙂

I also say those things…ALL the time…when they aren’t in the room to hear me say it.  To me, they deserve to be acknowledged – in person, just as much as when they won’t hear it directly.  Those positive vibes are still theirs to be had…and proximity won’t change that. ❤


Vintage Whitmans ad that we shared on Facebook for The American Hot Rod Foundation, in honor of Mum’s Day. Not our image, but just a fun share (it was a random internet find)! 🙂

So yes…I got my mum a card…but I also make a point to tell her that her flower arrangements are AMAZING when I see them around her house – they’re gorgeous, and the talent is out of this world.  I want her to know it!

I love to say “you look so pretty!” when she is dressed, for a meeting…or a dinner, doesn’t matter.  I want her to know.  

I make a point to tell her “I’m SORRY” when I am out of line.  Sometimes I’ll even cry because I feel terribly – and somehow, she always understands.  She deserves respect and love every day.

I will never lose the love of lifting her up, if I can…when I can.  I do not want her to Live for a split second without knowing how much I love her, and how amazing she is – busy lives mean sometimes forgetting to make it known that we are thankful.  But I don’t ever want her to doubt.

I’m not sure, honestly, I will EVER be able to tell her enough…but I hope that along the way she has heard a least some of those things, felt my sincere love, and known that the notes I write truly are from my heart.

I hope one day I can be a fraction of the mother she has been to me, to my own.  She lights me up when all other Lights go out – she gave me air to breathe.

You mums are amazing out there…  You do so much, often without recognition.  Know that today is actually NOT Mother’s Day…when I am writing this…but that even when Sunday passes by, that you are appreciated and loved and cherished for all you do.  

And when it comes down to it, EVERY DAY should be Mother’s Day, and Father’s Day, and Valentine’s Day…



Because no one needs to tell you.  

There is no obligation.  

Love is unconditional, and appreciation should flow freely.  ❤

Love and blessings to all.

X ❤